Thursday 26 September 2013

ARE YOU REALLY READY FOR MARRIAGE? ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS.


Dear SleektouchBBB readers, i came across this post on romancemeetslife.com as i was doing my normal blog updates. I thought it would be a wonderful idea to share it with you my lovelies. 

What do you think about the following questions, am sure we don't want to make some mistakes or correct some we have made? i quite agree with some of them. please leave your comments and suggestions.

  1. If you believe strongly that you must always have the last say in an argument, you are not ready for marriage.
  2. If you don't like anyone invading your space, you are not ready
  3. If you're a lady, and you don't cook or don't like to, your marriage is not likely to be easy or funny.
  4. If you always say things exactly how they come to your mind not caring who is hurt, you're headed for a rocky and ultimately likely to crash marriage
  5. If you believe that you're who you are and no one can change that, you are not ready.
  6. If you think about others only when you've fully sorted yourself out, you are not ready.
  7. If you are so good at holding grudge and you'll only let go when you feel like, stay unmarried.
  8. If you're a man and you're not engaged in ventures or process in tie that financially take care of your immediate family and beyond, you need to give yourself a few more years to be ready.
  9. If you believe that women at best should be good in bed and kitchen affairs only, you'll end up having a bitter and subdued wife; stay away.
  10. If your mind can't conceive the thought of having a more successful wife, even if it's temporary, then you have a little growing up to do. Welcome to the real world, stuff happens.
  11. If as a man, you are easily swayed and pressurized to do things against your wish, you are not ready for marriage
  12. If you have no confidence in your ability and your future, you have no business taking someone else with you.
  13. If as a man you don't have a mentor or leader you follow, listen or defer to, you're not going to be able to lead your family.
  14. If you can't have a wedding ceremony within a budget you can personally afford,  you could either give yourself more time or  who says you can't have 20 guests or less at your wedding? cut your coat according to your size and take responsibility. As a man you can define how small or large you want your wedding ceremony to be and be able to handle it
  15. If you have an anger problem such that you can destroy things when you are angry, get a therapist to help you through managing it. Otherwise, engage God's help for the change you seek. With anger issues, you're disaster waiting to explode.
  16. Lastly, I will add if you don't like to have sex, maybe you are not ready for marriage, as this honestly breaks the home and relationship.
You can add yours too, just like i did added number 16. Please leave your comments below.

EXTRACTED FROM: WWW.ROMANCEMEETSLIFE.COM





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